Hilary Duffâs Husband Viciously Trolls Ashley Tisdale After âToxicâ Mom Group Drama Goes Viral
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Amita KumariJanuary 7, 2026 at 1:08 AM
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Just a day after Ashley Tisdale spoke out about her experience with a âtoxicâ celebrity mom group, Hilary Duffâs husband, Matthew Koma, appeared to fire back with a savage response.
On Tuesday, January 6, Matthew shared a post that many online found âdistasteful,â with several accusing him of outright trolling the High School Musical alum, and even dubbing him a âmean girl.â
While Ashley avoided naming names, internet sleuths quickly linked her allegations to several well-known celebrity moms, including Hilary Duff, Mandy Moore, and Meghan Trainor.
âAnd his response tells me everything I so basically Ashley was right,â one user wrote, while another added, âHe shouldnât have said anythingâŠâ
Hilary Duffâs husband, Matthew Koma, took a vicious jab at Ashley Tisdale yesterday in a scathing Instagram Story
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Ashley Tisdale recently opened up about her experience of repeatedly being excluded from the âmom groupâsâ hangouts and group chats, saying it made her feel like she was back in high school.
In a candid personal essay published in The Cut, she noted that the group dynamic âstopped being healthy and positiveâ and that she eventually texted them, âThis is too high school for me, and I donât want to take part in it anymore.â
She recalled spending nights alone after putting her daughters to bed, questioning what she had done wrong to be excluded by people she considered friends.
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The actress described feeling âtotally lostâ and emotionally exhausted as she noticed social media posts showing group gatherings she hadnât been invited to.
The 40-year-old mom of two stated that while some members of the mom group attempted damage control, others tried to convince her that she was the one choosing not to attend the groupâs gatherings.
The 38-year-old musician cryptically referred to Tisdale as âthe most self-obsessed, tone-deaf person on earthâ
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She also revealed discovering group chats that didnât include everyone and said that after repeatedly seeing photos of the group spending time together without her, it became impossible to ignore the message being sent.
Shortly after the essay gained momentum online, Matthew Koma shared an Instagram Story featuring a photo of his face photoshopped onto Tisdaleâs body.
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The image mimicked Ashleyâs original essay cover, with Koma sitting in the same pose on a couch and the headline altered to read, âA mom group tell-all through a fatherâs eyes.â
It continued, âWhen youâre the most self-obsessed tone-deaf person on earth, other moms tend to shift focus to their actual toddlers.â
âRead my new interview with @TheCut,â the 38-year-old singer-songwriter captioned the image.
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However, Komaâs move appeared to backfire, as social media users pointed out that Ashley had not named any celebrities in her essay, nor had his wife, Hilary Duff, publicly addressed the âtoxicâ mom group allegations.
One person wrote, âOkay well Hilary Duffâs husband kinda just confirmed that his wife was in fact the mean girl.â
Matthewâs mockery of the Young & Hungry star sparked a heated online debate over whether he had âconfirmedâ his wifeâs alleged involvement
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Another commented, âReal man stay out of women drama. If Hilary wants this addressed then she or her reps can do that. Husband needs to b*tt out.â
A third chimed in, âEmotional maturity of a 10 year old. Says a lot about the wife and makes Ashleyâs story more credible.â
âI think that the man needs to leave the conversation. Besides, as someone who has experienced and still experiences bullying, I donât blame her for leaving a toxic situation.â
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While speculation has been rife that the Aliens in the Attic starâs essay referenced Hilary, Mandy Moore, and possibly even Meghan Trainor, Ashley still follows the latter on Instagram and has unfollowed Hilary and Mandy.
A more far-fetched theory circulating online also linked the fallout to alleged political differences, claiming Ashley had shifted toward more conservative views that supposedly clashed with the othersâ more liberal stances.
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However, a representative for Tisdale later set the record straight regarding her intentions, and her political views, in a statement to TMZ.
The spokesperson told the outlet that the piece was not about Mandy, Hilary, or Meghan, adding that it was being âtwisted into clickbait.â
The drama erupted shortly after Ashleyâs now-viral The Cut essay detailing her experience of being part of a âtoxicâ celebrity mom group
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They also stated that there is âzero truthâ to the political rumors, clarifying that Ashley is a registered Democrat, just like the other women in the speculated friend group.
However, Matthewâs actions left some unconvinced by the representativeâs statement, with one person commenting, âDidnât he just rat his wife out then? âCause I think Ashley put out a statement saying she wasnât talking directly about Hilary.â
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Others echoed similar sentiments, writing, âHilary is known for being a huge bully, and so is Mandy Moore. This isnât surprisingâŠâ
While Komaâs Instagram jab has reignited the controversial âbullyingâ debate surrounding the mom group, Ashley has yet to respond to his mockery.
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Meanwhile, Tisdaleâs husband, composer Christopher French, whom she married in 2014 and shares two daughters, Jupiter Iris French and Emerson Clover French, with, has not publicly commented on the situation, unlike Matthew.
âThis is what happens when you take a situation that could have been handled privately and make it public,â one netizen reacted
Source: âAOL Entertainmentâ